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Amy’s Best Killer Lasagna

30 Nov

The hero of this lasagna recipe is the sausage and mushroom ragu -recipe is below.  It’s from Milk Street which is my #1 place to get outstanding recipes.

Use this with anything – regular pasta or I used it in lasagna. Make it first and don’t skip the cinnamon as it is what makes the whole damn dish!

You figure out how much you need.


In addition to the ingredients below, pick up:

  • No cook lasagna noodles
  • Ricotta cheese
  • Shredded mozzarella cheese
  • Parm cheese
  • Marinara sauce (Rao is best, I got the basil one)

Make the Ragu

One tip here is you are going to put this in a layer in lasagna so cut up the mushrooms real small and really break up the sausage. Ok?

Oh, one more tip, don’t add so much broth at the end.
Make this, then I’ll meet you at the bottom:

Ok.  Doesn’t that smell good! Aren’t you fancy, you made a ragu. That recipe is from Milk Street.

Now, assemble!


Now you have all the elements to build your masterpiece.


In a bowl, take the ricotta cheese (just figure out how much you’ll need for 2 layers.)  Probably a lot. Add a huge handful of mozzarella and then a bunch of parm and mix. Add a pinch of salt and pepper. In my next batch I think I will thin it out with an egg or some milk – easier to spread on the layers.


Spray whatever pan you are making this in with cooking spray and put a cup or so of marinara sauce in bottom.  Then add a layer of no cook noodles.  Just break them up to fit.  Don’t matter.  They can overlap.  Then spread a layer of ragu, then cheese, then noodles, then EITHER MORE RAGU, but if you feel it would be too much add a layer of marinara. Then cheese then noodles. You get the idea…


It’s your world, I’m just livin in it!

End with a layer of noodles, then sauce then cover with mozzarella. COVER IT UP!


Bake at 375 for 25 minutes, uncover and bake about 5 more then let rest on counter for 15.  

Pour yourself a glass of red, mix up a light salad and ENJOY!


Ps- freeze left over ragu to later put over toasted English muffins and top with cheese for lunch.  Or mix with some spaghetti.  
Xxoo
Amy 

Amy’s Best Killer Lasagna

15 Jan

The hero of this lasagna recipe is the sausage and mushroom ragu -recipe is below.  It’s from Milk Street which is my #1 place to get outstanding recipes.

Use this with anything – regular pasta or I used it in lasagna. Make it first and don’t skip the cinnamon as it is what makes the whole damn dish!

You figure out how much you need.


In addition to the ingredients below, pick up:

  • No cook lasagna noodles
  • Ricotta cheese
  • Shredded mozzarella cheese
  • Parm cheese
  • Marinara sauce (Rao is best, I got the basil one)

Make the Ragu

One tip here is you are going to put this in a layer in lasagna so cut up the mushrooms real small and really break up the sausage. Ok?

Oh, one more tip, don’t add so much broth at the end.
Make this, then I’ll meet you at the bottom:

Ok.  Doesn’t that smell good! Aren’t you fancy, you made a ragu. That recipe is from Milk Street.

Now, assemble!


Now you have all the elements to build your masterpiece.


In a bowl, take the ricotta cheese (just figure out how much you’ll need for 2 layers.)  Probably a lot. Add a huge handful of mozzarella and then a bunch of parm and mix. Add a pinch of salt and pepper. In my next batch I think I will thin it out with an egg or some milk – easier to spread on the layers.


Spray whatever pan you are making this in with cooking spray and put a cup or so of marinara sauce in bottom.  Then add a layer of no cook noodles.  Just break them up to fit.  Don’t matter.  They can overlap.  Then spread a layer of ragu, then cheese, then noodles, then EITHER MORE RAGU, but if you feel it would be too much add a layer of marinara. Then cheese then noodles. You get the idea…


It’s your world, I’m just livin in it!

End with a layer of noodles, then sauce then cover with mozzarella. COVER IT UP!


Bake at 375 for 25 minutes, uncover and bake about 5 more then let rest on counter for 15.  

Pour yourself a glass of red, mix up a light salad and ENJOY!


Ps- freeze left over ragu to later put over toasted English muffins and top with cheese for lunch.  Or mix with some spaghetti.  
Xxoo
Amy 

appreciating cheese danish, friends who dance + surviving COVID

20 Dec

Hi. It’s been a while since we spoke. I was going to say “hot minute” but I can’t tell you how much that phrase irks me. i’m glad to be back as I believe we all need to concentrate on what we appreciate, what we love and care about and what we’re grateful for nowadays.

I’m not going to lecture, shove my POV in your face, try to get you to buy a course, a craft or try to build an on-line following. I don’t aspire to be an influencer or show you how cool I am in everyday showing you what I wear, what I put in my hair, what kind of leggings I buy.

Well, I might do that last one. After all, I’m interested in what other people are doing in this year-of-the-weird.

Really, what I missed and loved so much about writing this blog for 7 years was when my friends that I don’t talk to every single day track with me. It’s kind of a one-side way to stay in touch where the other side eventually catches up.

So, I had Covid in September. It wasn’t fun and wouldn’t wish it on anyone. I survived. Robert has it now. It’s much better for him than it was for me. He is tired and run down but no fever or anything else. He is taking it easy and I’m spoiling him with some yummy food. Not that either one of us need to be piling food in our face but somehow it makes us feel better.

He loves cheese danish. We aren’t big “donut” sweet breakfast people – more lox and bagels types – but he has always loved cheese danish. So waking up at 5:30am on a Sunday morning, I whipped up a 1/2 batch. I’ve always wanted to be someone who just whips up a batch of homemade danish and – LOOK! – I am!

This is Ina Garten, the Barefoot Contessa’s recipe. And you can look it up, but I’ll give you my version to show you how easy it is. Also, note, these aren’t too sweet which I like.

What you’ll need to get from Instacart (don’t risk Covid for these. It’s not lobster for crying out loud!) MAKES 4

Puff Pastry – one sheet thawed out in fridge overnight

1/2 block (4 oz) cream cheese – room temp

1 egg yoke – room temp

1 tbsp ricotta cheese (make stuffed shells later with rest)

Vanilla

TBSP lemon juice (I forgot this and used lemon juice from bottle, big whip)

2 tbsp +2 tsp sugar

One egg beat with a dash of water in a little bowl

RECIPE:

In your mixer or in a bowl, mix on low speed the sugar and cream cheese. When smooth, add in ricotta, vanilla, egg yoke and lemon juice. Don’t whip it! just get it together.

Now press out or roll the puff pastry to 10×10. I actually got out a tape measure (dork!) but not necessary. You know me, I’m super detail oriented. Just flatten it a bit. Cut with knife or pizza cutter into four squares.

Take a spoon and put the cream cheese mixture in a dollap in the middle of each square. Take the egg wash and wash outside of square. Then take two opposite corners and pull towards each other and press. Egg wash the outside.

Oh yeah, preheat your oven at 400 degrees. Should have told you that at the top. I’m not a professional.

Pop these on sheet pan with parchment paper into the oven and bake for 20 minutes turning the tray around 1/2 way through.

Let me know if you try them. They are so good!

Lastly, call out to my friend Yareli. We share fitbit stats with each other most evenings. Sometimes we are “on” and sometimes we’re “off” but she is getting additional steps in by dancing at night in her place. Cracks me up. I love it. I made a playlist for you, Y.

Here comes Fall! Recipes + Tunes

23 Sep

Today is the first day of fall – my favorite season. And no, not because of pumpkin spiced anything (have advertisers gone nuts with that obsession or what?) I actually love maple flavor better than pumpkin. There is nothing like the crisp snap of the air here in Wisconsin, the fired-up feeling on Saturdays when the Badgers play at home and the leaves begin changing at their own free will.

More than anything, I wish I was up north. If it were up to me, I’d be up there from October 1 straight-time until December. I just can’t take the drives up there for granted. To me, they are awe-inspiring! The turkeys scavenging for who-knows-what along side the road, the crops getting ready to be harvested and the big moon highlighting it all. But we’re starting to renovate the cabin up north so we’re going to be MIA up there for a little while.

Here are two recipes I’m going to be trying this weekend and what we’ll be listening to while making them.

I think you’ll like this playlist, it’s what you want to be listening to as the temps drop, sweaters come out again and you can smell the waft of the casserole coming from the oven. Maybe play some cards too. ROF is beating me by a couple of hundred points right now which is downright depressing but I keep going back for more torture.

Why don’t you join me in making these recipes? We’ll all post our pics on FB or IG and we’ll give ourselves ratings on what we thought. OMG fun times ahead…

photo courtesy of Half Baked Harvest

(#1) BROCCOLI CHEDDAR CHICKEN + RICE CASSEROLE

I love this food blogger and excited for her new cookbook to come out! Half Baked Harvest is Tieghan Gerard and her blog and IG is awesome. I’m going to try this recipe this weekend because it combines 4 things I love the most: broccoli, cheese, rice and it’s a casserole. Not that I don’t love chicken but I am just indifferent towards it (sorry, chicken.) Casseroles are the best – we just had a delicious one at my Aunt Sally’s house in Long Beach, California. After I make this I’m going on a diet.

(#2) MORNING GLORY MUFFINS

So, now that I’m on this diet, I’m going to have one of these for breakfast. But will probably slather butter all over it. There I go predicting my behavior again! I’m actually not familiar with this blogger yet but stumbled upon this recipe and thought I’d try it. Does this float your boat? I like the whole hodge-podge mess of ingredients in here. Let’s give it a roll this weekend.

fall muffins
Here is my playlist. It’s pretty awesome, if I do say so myself. And I do.

ENJOY!

World’s Best Margarita Recipe

30 Aug

Look no further. The best margarita recipe is here. Once you make this, you’ll never, ever use a mix again. These, hands down are the best drinks to usher out the summer.

if you want a plain, delicious margarita recipe, see this. But if you want to shake things up a little bit (that’s cocktail humor) then read on…

Jalapeño Margarita

My boy, ROF, is the best drink maker, I guess you’d call that a bartender. You can watch all his drink videos here.

Here is his video and the recipe follows. This is from a couple of years ago when we lived in Dallas. So it is Dallas approved!

ONE BATCH FOR FOUR:

6 Limes – juice them. Have more for garnish

1 cup Jalapeno simple syrup – recipe follows

1 cup Cointreau liquor – orange-flavored liqueur

1 cup Herradura tequila – or any tequila

Pour all into a large pitcher and stir. Pour into four glasses filled with ice and garnished with a lime.

Jalapeno Simple Syrup Ingredients

  • 2 cups sugar
  • 1 cup water
  • 2 fresh jalapeño peppers (washed and stemmed)

Make it:

  • Add the sugar and water to a saucepan over medium-high heat and stir constantly until the sugar is dissolved
  • Slice jalapeños lengthwise and add to the pan
  • Bring to a boil, stirring frequently
  • Reduce the heat to a gentle simmer, and simmer for three minutes
  • Remove from heat and let it steep for 20 minutes
  • Strain to remove all of the pepper

Enjoy! Let me know if you make these! Happy Labor Day!

Award-Winning Spaghetti (Non) Recipe

23 Aug

Happy Friday, y’all! First off, if you are used to following a recipe to a tee, you are going to have fun with this hearty pre-fall meal. There is no need for measurements here – make it your own!

Next, this is a great dish to throw in the freezer and the thaw and reheat. I have three huge jugs of it in my freezer right now.

I made this because I bought 7 tomatoes to make a recipe but didn’t end up making it. I didn’t want to waste them. This sauce kind of resembles chili and can probably be eaten as such but my mom prolly wouldn’t approve. This is her recipe and she makes it a lot. She informed me that spaghetti is her favorite meal and always has been. Trust me, she knows what she is doing.

HOW TO MAKE THIS A COUPLES ACTIVITY

  • Get all your ingredients together
  • Plug into this playlist
  • Split up responsibilities
  • Play cards
  • Kiss
  • Drink red wine while cooking

Gather:

  • 2 parts 80/20 beef
  • 1 part mild or spicy sausage
  • Carrots (Chop up)
  • Celery (chop)
  • Onion (chop)
  • Sweet peppers (chop)
  • Bunch of red ripe tomatoes (or buy canned, whatever)
  • Ton of spices (more on that later)
  • 1 can tomato soup
  • 2 jars pasta sauce

Cook:

  • The beef and sausage in some oil, breaking it up into small pieces until no longer pink
  • in separate pan, cook the onions, peppers, celery carrots and garlic in a little bit of oil- cook until soft. Throw in some salt and pepper
  • Combine the veggies and meats and let them get to know each other in the pot. Pour in the sauces and soup. My mom made me rinse out the jar with a little water and pour that into the mix
  • If you are going to use fresh tomatoes like us, it’s a pain. Just kidding! First score the bottom of the tomatoes in a cross cross fashion with a knife. Barely pierce the skin. Throw them in boiling water for a little while – until you see skin start to scrinch up. Then remove and dunk in ice water. Then the skin should peak right off. Don’t wear white pants like mom did. Ha.
  • Now toss in lots of spices. Sage advice: you can always add more but can’t add less. Spice examples: tarragon, cumin, red pepper flakes, oregano, parsley – just smell and if you like toss it in
  • You can also toss in some red wine. Here is one I like that you can get at grocery store.

Bring to a boil, then down to a simmer. Simmer for a while – however long it takes to beat your husband in a couple hands of gin.

Taste, taste, taste and add more seasoning.

Pour over any kind of noodles and you’ve got yourself lots of sauce for lots of future meals! If you make this – tag me in your IG.

Lil tomato juice on her leg…

Spiced Pecan Recipe

25 Nov

I kind of feel stupid for posting a post on nuts when there are so many other things to talk about right now. I have several friends and family members going through some shit and nuts doesn’t make the list of important topics.

However, I just made this and it was kind of therapeutic. The whole stirring, melting and mixing kind of occupies your mind and is a nice distraction. And it smells scrumptious! If you don’t like spice, just omit the pepper.

This is my friend Ginny’s recipe. I hope my nuts come out as good as hers.

1 tsp kosher salt

1/2 tsp each of:

  • Ground cumin
  • Cayenne pepper
  • Ground cinnamon
  • Dried ground orange peel (you can buy this at spice store or just grate some orange and nuke in microwave)
  • 1 pound (16 oz) pecan halves
  • 4 tbsp unsalted butter
  • 1/4 cup packed light brown sugar
  • 2 tbsp dark brown sugar (or just use light)
  • 2 tbsp water
  • Directions:
  • Line a half sheet pan with parchment paper and set aside.
  • Mix the salt, cumin, cayenne, cinnamon and orange peel together in small bowl and set aside.
  • Place nuts 🥜 in a cast iron skillet and set over medium heat. Cook, stirring frequently for 4 to 5 minutes until they just start to brown and smell toasted. Add the butter and stir until it melts. Add the spice mixture and stir to combine. Once combined, add both sugars and water, stirring until mixture thickens and coats the nuts, approximately 2-3 minutes.
  • Transfer the nuts to the prepared sheet pan and separate them. Allow nuts to cool completely before transferring to airtight container for storage. Can be stored up to 3 weeks.
  • Chicken Florentine Artichoke Bake Recipe

    3 Oct

    Who doesn’t need a wonderful, delicious chicken casserole recipe right about now?  I know I do!  As the weather here in Madison gets colder (and wetter!) – nothing seems to warm you up like a good old-fashioned casserole.  Am I right or am I right? 

    Don’t let a big casserole intimidate you.  Is it only the 2 of you?  Cut this recipe in half and make in little ramekins.  

    This recipe is my sister-in-law, Susan’s recipe and it’s adapted from Better Home & Gardens.  

     

    Chicken Florentine Artichoke Bake

    6 servings

    GET IT:

    bow tie pasta – 8 ozs

    onion – 1 small, chopped

    eggs – 2

    butter – 2t

    milk – 1 1/4c

    crushed red pepper – shake

    dried Italian seasonings – shake

    chicken  -2 c cooked + chopped

    monterey jack cheese – 2 c, shredded

    artichoke hears – 14 oz can

    spinach – 10 oz, fresh

    oil-packed sun-dried tomatoes – 1/2 c drained and chopped

    panko  bread crumbs – 1/2 c

    paprika – 1/2 Tsp

    parm cheese – 1/4 c

    MAKE IT:

    Preheat oven to 350.  

    Cook pasta according to directions, drain. 

    In a medium skillet cook onion in 1 tsp of butter over medium heat about 5 minutes, stirring every so often.  remove from heat, set aside.

    In a bowl, whisk together eggs, milk, seasoning, salt, pepper, and crushed red pepper.  stir in chicken, cheese, artichokes, spinach, tomatoes, half of the parm cheese, pasta and onion.  get in there with your hands and stir it up – a spoon can’t do it justice! transfer to a 13 x 9 baking dish.

    Fix a glass of wine.

    Bake this baby, covered for 20 minutes.  

    In a small bowl, combine remaining parm cheese, bread crumbs, paprika, and 1tsp butter melted.  sprinkle mixture over pasta.  Bake for 10 minutes more until golden!

    WATCH IT:

    Here is Susan showing how to make it!

    adapted from better homes and garden

    Killer Chili Recipe

    16 Sep

    I think I may have found a killer chili recipe.  Actually, I have several really good chili recipes – but this is no ordinary recipe.

    This is fancy chili.

    This ain’t no throw it in a pot and watch it boil type of chili.  It’s stay-in-on-a-cold-Saturday-afternoon-light-a-fire-in-the-fireplace kind of chili.  in our case, we made it before the super bowl while it was a balmy 7 degrees outside.

    I got this recipe from one of my favorite cooks, but it actually isn’t her recipe but an award-winning chili from one of her friends.  I googled this name and found a lot of bloggers have already covered this chili recipe, so if you don’t believe me how good it is – company good- just click here, or here or even here.  I don’t mind, but they don’t have cute ROF in their photos!

    PLEASE NOTE:

    1. We cut this recipe in 1/2 and it gave us 6 servings.  Make a note of that or you’ll be eating it for a week!

    2. It has coffee in it.  Fancy…!

    3. There is a ton (i mean a TON) of hot spices in here.  May want to cut it back just a little if you’re not adventurous like us.   The sour cream is a mandatory topping to cut the heat.

    Devon’s Award Winning Chili (Serves 6 to 8 )

    Copyright 2010, Devon Fredericks, All Rights Reserved 

    5 pounds beef brisket, cut in 1-inch cubes
    ¼ cup olive oil
    2 cups yellow onions, chopped
    6 large garlic cloves, minced
    2 tablespoons chili powder
    1 tablespoon red pepper flakes, crushed
    1 tablespoon cayenne pepper
    2 tablespoons cumin
    2 green peppers, diced
    1 bay leaf
    6 cups tomatoes, chopped with their liquid
    Salt and pepper
    ½ cup strong coffee
    2 (15-ounce) cans kidney beans
    2 tablespoons basil

    Serve with
    Sour cream
    Grated Cheddar
    Diced tomato
    Tortilla chips
    Guacamole

    Pat the brisket cubes dry with paper towels. Heat the oil in a very large heavy casserole and quickly brown the meat in batches on all sides. Transfer the brisket to a separate bowl and set aside. Sauté the onion and garlic in the same oil over medium heat for 8 to 10 minutes until limp, but not brown. Add the chili powder, pepper flakes, cayenne pepper, and cumin and sauté for 1 minute. Add the green peppers, bay leaf, tomatoes with their juice, the reserved meat, 1 tablespoon salt, and 1 teaspoon pepper and bring to a boil. Reduce the heat, cover the pot with a tight-fitting lid and simmer for 2½ hours, stirring occasionally.

    Add 1 tablespoon salt, or to taste, and the coffee, cover the pot and simmer for one more hour.

    Add the kidney beans and basil, and warm through. Serve with bowls of sour cream, grated cheddar, diced tomato, tortilla chips, and guacamole.

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    Brunch Birthdays

    15 Sep

    First of all, we all love birthdays.  I mean, I love them a little less now that I’m over 35… but it’s nice for people to acknowledge your birth.  However, they can be a little predictable. Right?  You know the drill:  Birthday dinner.  Balloons.  Cake.  A song.  Presents. That is why I loved this idea of a BRUNCH BIRTHDAY.

    This was my SIL’s, Susan’s idea.  She threw a brunch birthday celebration for our nephew, Bill today.  I loved the idea.  Because family (including moi) was in town a week or so before his birthday but wouldn’t be here for the big day, we celebrated Saturday morning. 

    Here are the deets:

     Menu:

    Ham & Cheese Quiche

    Broccoli Cheese Quiche

    Fresh Mangos

    Iceland Yogurt Parfait Starring:

    • Blackberries
    • Honey
    • Pistachios
    • Granola

    Lots of bakery goods that people fight over and pick on during the meal.

    Lots of coffee and OJ and leave plenty of time to chat and laugh. 

    Thanks for the great morning Susan!

     

    Cocktails with ROF: Sangria!

    12 Jul

    There is nothing like fresh Sangria in the summer!  Well, a margarita is pretty good too.  Sure, you can buy the premixed Sangria drinks from Costco, and honestly, it’s pretty good.  But ROF has been making his own Sangria for as long as I can remember.

    See video – filmed from vacation in Long Beach Island, New Jersey.  Recipe below.

    FRUIT NEEDED:

    1 peach

    1 plum

    3 limes

    1 lemon

    1 orange

    Cut up all fruit into chunks and squeeze the lemon, lime and orange juice into the JUG.  

    BOOZE NEEDED:

    1 cup of sugar

    1.5 cups of Brandy

    1 cup of Triple Sec (orange liquor)

    2 bottles of cheap red wine/merlot

    Mix everything together.  Serve over ice with a splash of club soda on top and a lime or lemon.  ENJOY!!

    The Best Steak Recipe You’ll Ever Make: Hawaiian Ribeyes

    10 Jul

    Last year, ROF and I went to Hawaii with some close friends.  It was my first time in Hawaii and it didn’t disappoint.  You know how people talk a place up for so long and it either disappoints, meets expectations or exceeds expectations?  This exceeded expectations.  Awesome.  

    While there, ROF made his delicious Hawaiian ribeye steaks that we grilled. I’m dying for you to try these steaks.  Your mouth might start to water as mine did when you watch this. 

    The recipe is below.  If you try it this weekend, please send me a picture! 

    Hawaiian Ribeye Steak

    the marinade:

    1 cup of sugar

    3 small cans of pineapple juice

    1/2 cup of apple cider vinegar

    1 cup of soy sauce

    2 inches of fresh ginger, chopped

    1 small white onion, chopped

    the meat:

    4 (12-16 oz) bone-in ribeyes – look for good marbling of fat throughout. 

    Mix all ingredients well (with a whisk) except the steaks in a large bowl.  Add two steaks to a large ziplock baggie.  Carefully divide the marinade between the two bags with the steaks.  Marinate the steaks for between (but no longer!) 12 and 24 hours in the refrigerator.  

    Grill the steaks over medium-high heat for about 8 minutes on each side for medium-rare.  Baste the steaks on each side with the marinade.  Enjoy!

    4 Ways to Entertain With Ease

    10 Jul

    This quote is the key to entertaining. Memorize it.

    I love to have people over.  The whole experience should be smooth, fun and lovely not only for your guests – but for you. Why? Because whether you are having friends over for dinner, your spouse’s colleagues around for a happy hour or a baby shower for 30 – the whole point of the event is meant to be… fun. You want your guests to be left with the feeling of inclusion, warmth, and happiness.

    Good luck, I can hear some of you sigh with a harrumph. Entertaining freaks me out, some of you might say. Well, here are 4 things to remember:

    1. START WITH WHAT YOU LIKE AND KNOW

    It’s no secret that my husband likes cocktails. He likes planning out a signature drink for the evening, buying the ingredients, setting up a bar, getting the ice and serving our guests when they arrive. That’s just one of his things. He starts his dinner party prep there.

    I like music and candles. I like creating playlists for the kind of mood I want to create. Maybe it’s a yoga night or we’re going up north or having drinks on the beach– I want to create a feeling with what people hear when they arrive and what they smell – that’s where I start.

    Where do you start? Here are some examples to help you decide:

    • Cooking or baking
    • Cleaning and/or decorating
    • Paper and invites
    • Music
    • Place settings
    • Landscapes
    • Planning
    • Making cocktails

    Figure out what you LOVE to do and start your planning there.

    2. DON’T STRIVE FOR PERFECTION, NO ONE CARES AS MUCH AS YOU DO

    Ina Garten said in one of her books something I’ll never forget.  She and Jeffery were young and broke but that didn’t stop her from having people over. She didn’t have the perfect napkins and matching place settings and her furniture was dated, but she confirmed that no one cares about stuff like that.

    If you wait to have everything “perfect” you’ll let life pass you by.

    Be driven by your guests need to feel welcome, not by your need to impress.

    3. PLAN EVERY ASPECT IN ADVANCE + DON’T DO IT ALL

    The more you plan, no matter how big or small the event, the easier it is to pull off an awesome party.  Take the time to think everything out – top to bottom – start to finish – write it all down, design a menu, make a grocery list.   I’ve designed an outline for you to use to help. 

    Another tip is don’t feel like you have to do it all.  Have friends bring the drinks or food.  Get party platters for appetizers that are already made or just put out some nuts and cheese.  Check out some EPIC party platters here.  

    4. YOU SET THE STAGE 

    You can either be like this:

    or like this:

    I Love Lucy!

    More reads on entertaining here, here and here.

    Best Rose Wine for Summer

    5 Jul

    I could give you a top 10 list but I just don’t have it in me. 

    I also can’t find the little symbol to go over the “e” so it is Rose-A not Rose.  But I think you get it.

    Ok. Not going to use terms like peachy finish or well-balanced either.  This is me.

    Just get it.  Go to Total Wine or google it.  At only $8.99 a bottle, it’s simply the best.  At that price, get 2.  Or a case.  Thanks Curt for introducing it to us.

    I would buy it and drink it with this, this or this.

    Top 5 Drinks to Mix When Hot

    30 Jun

    My boy, ROF, is a cocktail mix master.  It is a balmy 90+ degrees here in Mad Town and here are some cool drinks you can make tonight or for brunch this weekend.

    The Blood Orange Martini

    The Tidal Wave

    Rum Punch

    Jalapeno Margaritas (The Best! No Mix!)

    Bacardi Rum Cocktail

    And if you need something to eat along with all these drinks, throw some of these DELISH steaks on the grill!

     

     

     

    4 Great Breakfast Recipes

    25 Jun

    4 GREAT BREAKFAST RECIPES

    There ain’t nothing like a good egg.  My family loves eggs and we make them many different ways.  My sister, Katie makes a mean fried egg.  She can even flip the egg in the pan without a spatula.   She’s cool.  ROF scrambles eggs like no other.  it’s so simple yet so good.  They are just the right consistency and filled with the previous night’s leftovers.  Like salmon and cream cheese.   My specialty?  Poachies.  

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    Sometimes I like to venture past eggs and here are some great recipes!

    First is blogger Oh Joy’s rainbow pancakes. aren’t these the best idea ever?  especially if you have kids.  Pop over there to get the recipe that is in video format.

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    Second, is something that just made my mouth water a little bit.  Baked baguette french toast by the Dash and Bella blog.  I haven’t made this yet but think I will when I have my next overnight guests.

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    For the third recipe, I’m heading back to eggs.  Check out these awesome egg cupcakes.  Another great company breakfast.  Thanks dine & dish for this recipe!

    0b8a1e2d9145dfb6299e5879530fcb85Lastly, how about these amaretto french toast bites by the awesome sweet paul?  Delish!

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    EATS + DRINKS

    17 Jun

    Limoncello Cooler Recipe

    21 Apr

    Because us folks up north need a little sunshine Springtime right now!

    1oz gin

    1oz Limoncello

    1/2oz fresh lemon juice

    2-3oz club soda

    Lemon wedge

    Mix first 3 ingredients in a shaker. Pour into glass with ice. Top with club soda, garnish with lemon. Make now and if you’re in a state that still has snow on the ground, think warm thoughts and make another. Cheers! Here’s the video:

    Fun Stuff I Found!

    14 Mar

    I don’t know if you do this or not, but whenever I’m reading something or I see something online that I love, I screen grab it.  Are those two words or one?  Screengrab?

    Anyway, I’ve been doing this for years and now that the iPhone actually separates your screengrabs out for you in iphoto – all the things I’ve been saving are right there in one handy album for me!  It’s the 2018 equiv to what I used to do in my teens and 20’s. I would read a shitton (that is a new word I’m making up) of magazines and rip out articles and ads that I liked.  Then I’d either pin them up on my wall (that would be directly on to the wall – no bulletin board or the like) or make photocopies of them and pass the article out to people at work with the date written in at the top.

    I digress.  On to the stuff I found. 

    This isn’t in any kind of special order because I’m too lazy to actually think about that.  I just uploaded these babies.  Ready for some fun?  ok… read on.

    This first one is pretty self-explanatory.  Damn good.  Do you NOT want to make these right away?  Notice, it doesn’t say “yogurt,” it says “cheesecake”.  Get in my tum-tum right now!  The recipe can be found here.

    If you know me, you know that the minute the Dane County Farmers Market opens up in Madison – this is me every Saturday morning gathering the homeland’s finest flowers and bringing them home.  Oh, I can’t wait.  I can smell the early morning lake scents wafting into the state capitol and feel the summer against my cheek!  <sigh> I love this photo, so I grabbed it but don’t know where it came from.  IG, I’m sure.

     

    Girls, have you heard of this “capsule” idea?  Boys do this automatically, I believe. If I had the body for it, I would jump on this like white on rice.  Is that politically correct to say?  LOL, I don’t know anymore.  Geez.  Anyway, check this out!  For those of you that want to just throw something on and not think about it but still look super cute – get a capsule!  This is a curated bunch of basic clothes you can mix or match all season long.  I know who would like this of my friends (Megan & Connie?)  Read more about it here and here.

    Do you know who this is?  I LOVE LOVE LOVE this photo!  OMG (insert girly scream here) Click on the link if you didn’t catch that.

     

    I grabbed this above because ROF and I play cards EVERY. SINGLE. DAY.  Not kidding.  and YES YOU ARE WINNING, ROF!  And to me, accessorizing is key.  Can you say WANT THIS?!

    Someday, I will buy one of these kits and do it.  I really want one.

    A long time ago, I bought my friend Susan a similar kit from Anthro and I’d love her tell the story of what happened with that birthday gift that I bought her.

    Susan, if you’re reading, please comment below! xxoo

    I didn’t have just one pair of these shoes, I had at least three pairs of these shoes.  Not at once but because I WORE THEM OUT!

    Who knew?  By the way, you can do this OR pay over $500 for it to be done by a nutritionist. 

     

    Mom?  Wouldn’t this be awesome?  Let someone else figure out the meds.  And yes, this would work perfectly for me too!

     

    Ok, that’s it for now.  I haven’t even been able to make a dent in the things I’ve grabbed so more later.  What have you found?

    Awesome Birthday Traditions

    7 Feb

    I love this tradition (plus I love steak see here and here!) After hearing about this a couple of times, I decided all of you needed to know about it too.  Make this tradition your own!  There are so many ideas.  I share some of mine after the interview. 

    I interviewed my friend, Sean Sivore and his son Aidan on their favorite thing to do on their birthdays:

    Tell me a little bit about why you go to so many Steakhouses(how many?) – what is your tradition and how did it start?  I’ve always loved the experience at steakhouses.  The service and atmosphere are a big part of what makes a great steakhouse great.  My Dad loved great restaurants and since Aidan and I have birthdays one day apart, I thought it would be a fun “father/son” tradition to research the hottest steakhouses around and the two of us go to one for our birthday each year.  We’ve been doing this since Aidan’s 7th Birthday.

    Musso and Frank Grill, Hollywood, CA – August, 2016

    Now, let’s talk to Aidan.

    Is steak your favorite thing to eat? Yes!

    What are your top 5 steakhouses and why did you like them so much?

    1.  Bavette’s – Chicago, ILAtmosphere was a little like a bar (dark/quiet),  But the steak was so good, it didn’t matter.
    2.  Prime and Provisions – Chicago, ILSteak was perfect.  The atmosphere was awesome.  The bacon appetizer is off the chain! The service was the best of any steakhouse.
    3. Gibson’s – Chicago, ILFirst steakhouse I went to and finished an 18oz Rib-eye at age 8.
    4. Benjamin’s Steakhouse – New York, NYOld School looking steakhouse, but not that old.  Steaks were awesome.
    5. Chicago Cut – Chicago, ILCool steak place, atmosphere, and great food.

    Do you order the same thing at all the steakhouses?   No, I usually order whatever the house specialty is.  When in doubt though I order a Rib-eye.

    What is your favorite thing to eat? Steak by far 

    Sean: This is a picture of our first annual “Guy’s Steak Night Out.”  This was before the ladies of the family started muscling their way into our tradition.  He finished the whole steak!

    December 2012, Gibson’s Chicago

    Prime and Provisions – Chicago, 2017 
    Thanks, Sean and Aidan!  This is so much fun – what a great idea!  Here are some of my thoughts on how to make this your own.
    1. If steak is not your thing, make it sushi, Italian or even pizza!  Hit up your own city or travel.
    2. If food is not your bag, what about a class?  Take a class with friends or your S.O. on your birthday.  Learn something new every year on your birthday and keep track with a photo.
    3. Do something crazy out-of-the-ordinary every year on your birthday.  Research it.  Swim with dolphins, skydive, bungee jump, swim to Alcatraz * – mark the years you get older by something cool.  *scroll down to read about my mom’s close friend Nancy Moore and what a bad ass she is!
    4. Make it a point to travel to a new place on your birthday.  One year it may be a new town driving distance from you and another might be Europe!  Document it, write it down, snap it up.

    Let me know what your traditions are for your birthdays!

    Super Bowl Cocktail Video “Boston Cooler”

    3 Feb

    Since the Cowboys aren’t in the Super Bowl, this isn’t a big deal to me.  ROF is rooting for New England.  In fact, he is giving us all a refreshing cocktail to sip along with this scrumptious dip or these awesome sliders.

    the appletini cocktail recipe

    15 Dec

    i think this may have evolved into a cocktail blog! no, i will be back eventually. to be honest, while i love writing and appreciating i am just a little tired of the whole blogging thing. i read a TON of design blogs and lifestyle blogs and everything is …well… styled. and styled to me is starting to get … well … boring. stop gasping. i know – shocker. i want to aspire to something different and i already know what it is. but it’s secret. tell ya later.

    now, on to my main squeeze- ROF. happy friday! he’s been doing these awesome cocktail videos for me. you know why? he makes damn good drinks. he makes what we call “sipping” drinks (insert a wide-eyed “KATIE” here!) this is the perfect cocktail to mix for an intimate holiday get-together. it’s festive with green and red coloring and it’s delicious. remember what they say about martinis:

    here’s ROF:

    2 oz vodka

    1 oz simple syrup

    1oz apple liquor like this

    for other drink recipes, see ROF’s page here!

    The Cranberry Moscow Mule Holiday Cocktail

    7 Dec

    the weekend is almost here <sigh> and i’m ready for it! i’ve got a fun weekend planned which includes:

    – wisconsin chamber orchestra rendition of handel’s messiah

    – five hours of DIY bliss with herbs and essential oils and bath products at a class at the botanical gardens

    – ROF making his tasty wintertime meal: beef stroganoff and we might crack open a bottle of caymus.

    it’s also Thursday so ROF has mixed up a holiday cocktail for your weekend indulgence!

     

     

    Recipe:

    2oz Vodka

    4oz Ginger beer

    squeeze of lime

    frozen cranberries

    Pour, squeeze, stir, dink!

    cocktails with ROF jack-o-fire cocktail

    30 Nov

    all month long , we’re going to feature a signature holiday drink and release it on thursday.

    one thing that is fun to do if you’re having a holiday cocktail or dinner party  is to start with a pre-made signature drink.  typically just one to hand people as they come in.  when people come over, try to engage all the senses.  for example, your house is infused with scented candles that have already been burning a while or a tasty dinner in the oven, a holiday playlist with regular music mixed in with holiday music and a signature cocktail!

    this first cocktail is the perfect holiday sipping drink.  you’ve got cinnamon flavor with the whisky, vanilla, pumpkin and irish cream all together.

    all this month, if you post on social media, send us a photo or comment here on the blog of one of ROF’s drinks you made, we’ll enter you in a drawing to win a sleeve of these:

    JACK-O-FIRE

    • 1 part Fireball Whisky

    • 1 part vanilla vodka

    • 1 part pumpkin spice liqueur

    • 1 part Irish cream

    Shake and strain into a chilled martini glass. Garnish with cinnamon stick and ground nutmeg. Recipe from here.

    black friday highball: cocktails with ROF

    23 Nov

    happy thanksgiving!

    i’m so thankful for you.  i appreciate you letting me be creative and you reading and sharing.  i certainly am thankful for ROF who makes living life so much fun.  today is thursday, so it’s cocktails with ROF time.  today, he is celebrating BLACK FRIDAY with a Jim Beam Black drink to sip after you get done with shopping, crowds and malls tomorrow.  recipe is below his video:

    2 oz bourbon

    1 oz ginger ale

    2 oz coke

    squeeze of lime

    fill a glass 2/3 with ice, pour in bourbon, add in the ginger ale and coke.  finish with the squeeze of lime.  enjoy!

    how to make world class scrambled eggs

    22 Nov

    scrambled eggs?  am i off my rocker?  what about turkey, cranberry sauce or harvest rolls?  nah, you’ve got that covered...it’s too late for that.  but what you really need to know is how to make world class eggs.  guys, listen up.  and by that i truly mean guys.  you have an opportunity here to master this art and win over your kids hearts every saturday morning.

    at least that was the case with me.  my dad cooked a few things real well.  steak and eggs.  not together.  he was the world class scrambled egg maker.  in his slippers, saturday mornings, MTV blaring in the family room next to the kitchen.  TURN THAT CRAP DOWN!  sorry, i digress.  now, these may not have been the best eggs i ever had but i would never know it.  my dad talked everything he did up.  so when he served the eggs and bacon he’d say “have you ever seen anything more beautiful than that?”  and “you’re in for a real treat today, kids” – always matched with an eye roll from my mom.

    now, i’m married to ROF and he really does make the best scrambled eggs.  i would have loved to have a scrambled egg challenge with him and my dad.  that would have been fun.  but ROF cooks me eggs a lot – even during the week! and i have to say, they are the best.  (shout out to my sis who makes the best over-easy eggs and egg sammies in the world!)

    watch ROF at work here and how to make scrambled eggs.  oh, and of course, you girls can master this too! 🙂

    pumpkin pie martini recipe – for thanksgiving!

    16 Nov

    one week until thanksgiving.  are you ready?  ROF and i are staying in angelic madison and spending the holiday with good friends.  this week’s “cocktails with ROF” is given to you early so you can properly prep and serve this at your thanksgiving weekend activities and BE THE HIT OF THE PARTY!

    we first had this drink in NYC here.  one of the very best places to have a cocktail in the city.  we had started dating in april of 2009 and by thanksgiving i was already headed out to meet his family outside of NYC.  he took me here and we ordered two pumpkin pie martinis and i think they cost $18 each.  i kid you not. luckily for us, the recipe is on their website which you can see here or i pasted it below.

    here is ROF:

    COCKTAILS WITH ROF: Brandy Old-Fashioned Recipe

    9 Nov

    living in Wisconsin is just plain fun.  it really is.  there are so many things that are unanimously loved throughout the whole state that it’s like one big club.  here’s a little sample of what i’m talking about:

    • cheese curds
    • friday night fish fry
    • euchre
    • going up north
    • bar dice
    • beer and…
    • BRANDY OLD FASHIONED!

    of course, i called it “brandy old fashion” forever until i noticed the error of my ways and quickly changed.  google “wisconsin and brandy” and you’ll see the articles on how no one can really explain why ALL OF WISCONSIN DRINKS SO MUCH BRANDY!  one article went right to the source  – Korbel and got this quote:

    Wisconsin is our number one state,” says Margie Healy, director of public relations for the California-based Korbel. “We export 385,000 cases a year, and 139,000 go directly to Wisconsin. That’s one-third of our total production.”

    all i can tell you is that they are darn good drinks!  my girlfriends and i tried the “sweet” version this past weekend and loved them!

    so here is ROF with another drink for you to try out this weekend.  make it for you and your loved one and send us a picture! recipe is below.

    Brandy

    Orange

    Lemon

    Cherries (jar)

    Cube of sugar

    Angostura bitters 

    Sweet: 7-up or Sprite

    Sour: Club Soda

    Ice

    Put cube of sugar in class and squeeze the juice from one slice of orange and add a cherry.  Muddle it together – just press and break up the sugar cube and cherry.  Put 4-6 dashes of bitters in the glass and add some ice cubes.  Next, put in about 2- 2.5 ounces of Brandy.  Korbel is most popular.  Lastly top with either 7-up for SWEET or top with club soda for SOUR or a little bit of BOTH for a PRESS.  Add one more cherry to the top.  Take some lemon zest and squeeze the oils into the top and rub zest along rim.  There you go!  Enjoy!

    Share your pictures with us!

     

    grill your pizza, yo!

    29 Aug

     ROF was not happy about the idea of grilling pizza.

    we were doing our pre-dinner ritual of playing cards when he kept saying things like:

    “so i don’t get it.  how does it work?  i mean, do you roll the dough out?”

    trust me, love.  look at all these recipe books that have done it – it can be done!

    i have to say – on behalf of both of us – it was not good – the pizza was AWESOME.  y’all do this – this weekend!  this is what you do (not a recipe, just directions)

    go to whole foods or trader joes and buy pizza dough in the freezer section.  you can buy dough anywhere but i can’t then vouch for how good it is.  thaw it out in the fridge. ours was in there for a few days – no biggie.  get your toppings together.  we fried up some onions and mushrooms from the farmers market on the stove.  might have thrown in some garlic too.  take the dough and just stretch it out with your fingers.

    now, get your toppings together.  we fried up some onions and mushrooms from the farmers market on the stove.  might have thrown in some garlic too.  take the dough and just stretch it out with your fingers.  ROF and i did this together and (he won’t admit this) i think he may have had some fun.  his dough turned out much better than mine.

    get the grill nice and hot and oil up the grates, oil up the pizza dough on both sides and throw those puppies on!  Cook for about 2 minutes on each side.  bring all your toppings including sauce and cheese down to the grill, open the lid and after the dough has been flipped twice, go to work.  we both decorated our pizza the way we wanted it.  one way is to put the cheese on the bottom, no sauce and then throw the veggies on top.  but we used sauce.

    Cook for about 2 minutes on each side.  bring all your toppings including sauce and cheese down to the grill, open the lid and after the dough has been flipped twice, go to work.  we both decorated our pizza the way we wanted it.  one way is to put the cheese on the bottom, no sauce and then throw the veggies on top.  but we used sauce.  i dropped some ricotta cheese on mine because that’s how i roll.   then eat!

    cook it: crab cakes w/lemon dill sauce

    4 Aug

    cook it this recipe is designed for the person or couple who wants to cook but have a hard time deciding what to cook and frankly, how to cook.

    sometimes you just gotta say “cook it!” and dive right in.

    it is the perfect time of year for this recipe!

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    this is a perfect recipe to do this saturday.  so read the recipe, buy the ingredients and then saturday mid-morning, after you’ve slept in a little bit and had your coffee:

    grab all your ingredients

    read the recipe again

    put together your mise en place and

    make your sauce and your cakes

    then you just put them in the fridge.  when dinner time rolls around, well, aren’t you fancy?!  just pop those cakes in the oven, prepare a little baby spinach salad with a light vinaigrette and plop two cakes down on top, swirl your lemon dill sauce on the side and you’ve got one hell of a dinner.  easy.

    this recipe is from my wonderful sister-in-law susan who is an excellent cook.  check out the video she filmed of her making these for us at the bottom!

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    yield: 4 reasonably sized people

    prep time: 30 min

    total: 2 hours and 30 min

    lemon dill sauce

    get:

    mayo – 1 cup

    buttermilk – 1/4 cup

    dill – 2t chopped fresh

    italian parsley – 1t chopped fresh

    lemon zest – 1 t

    lemon juice – 2 tsp

    garlic – 1 clove minced

    make: combine all the ingredients above in a bowl and stir well.  put in fridge and let it chill out.  sauce will thicken as it chills. 

    crab cakes

    get:

    butter – 3t

    scallions – 3 chopped

    red bell pepper – 2t chopped

    garlic – 1 clove minced

    heavy cream – 3t

    dijon mustard – 1t

    egg – 1

    italian parsley – 1.2 t chopped fresh

    cayenne pepper – a dab’ll do ya

    bread crumbs – 1 cup

    parmesan cheese – 1/4 cup

    crabmeat – 1 lb.

    make: melt 1t of butter in a skillet over medium heat.  

    saute’ the scallions, pepper and garlic for about 3 minutes. in a bowl, 

    mix together the cream, mustard, egg, parsley, cayenne pepper, 1/2 the bread crumbs and the vegetables you just sautéed.

    gently fold in the crabmeat.  form mixture into 8 patties.  

    in a mixing bowl, combine the remaining bread crumbs (1/2 c) and the parm cheese.  pat this topping onto both sides of the patties.  refrigerate until firm – at least 2 hours. 

    you can cook these on the stove in a little bit of oil or bake them which is what we do. 

    top each patty with a small pat of butter and bake at 400 degrees for 10 to 12 minutes.  serve on a bed of spinach with a dollop of lemon dill sauce on the side. 

    are you ready to impress your loved one with this awesome dinner?  here is susan making both the lemon dill sauce and the crab cakes.  make them this weekend and post a pic to instagram and tag me.  i dare you…!

    3 fabulous + easy chicken meals

    2 Aug

    wanted to share with you a delicious + easy way to stretch out a chicken dinner.  this is great for:

    it’s too easy to get into a habit of ordering take out or running through whole foods to get something quick and somewhat healthy to eat. but why?  i’ve got something more delicious and quick and easy for you.

    so… meal #1.  go to a specialty grocery store on a sat or sun morning and get a couple of marinated chicken breasts. you’re going to get 2-3 meals out of this so buy accordingly.

    you could marinate it yourself and if you do there are some good marinades here and here.  but if you’re busy – why?   if you live in texas, go to central market where they have a lovely choice of millions of kinds of marinated chicken breasts.  maybe not millions.  In Detroit area go to papa joe’s or here in Madison, go to metcalfs.  you know what i’m saying…

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    meal #1 -DINNER –  grill or bake those chicken breasts, add rice and simple roasted vegetable.  done.  easy.

    (SIDENOTE: to roast your vegetables just heat oven to 400 degrees, wrap a cookie sheet with tinfoil, throw some cut up brussel sprouts or broc or cauliflower (um yum!)  a drizzle of olive oil, some kosher salt and sprinkle of pepper, toss, throw in oven. watch them after about 15 minutes and take out when crispy with blackened edges.  if you want to get fancy, throw some of this on the veg before roasting.  i’m always fancy and i love this spice!)

    brussells

    ok that wasn’t the fun part.  big whip, you’re thinking.

    so now, you should have some extra cooked chicken breast.  cut them up into tiny bite size pieces.    put them in a airtight container.  i start my year with tons of these.

    meal #2 – LUNCH THE NEXT DAY – Chicken and cheese quesadillas!  oh, these are so good and actually kind of fun to make.  buy flour tortillas and keep them for exactly this purpose.  these can be as healthy or fat-laden as you want them to be.  the technique is the same.  the tortilla has to be big enough to fold in half.

    here is the step by step:

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    • get a big fry pan  – i use a cast iron skillet
    • spray it with PAM and also drop a pat of butter in there. get it nice and hot!
    • take your tortilla, and put a thin layer of cheddar cheese on half
    • top with your leftover chicken
    • cut up some green onion and sprinkle on top of that
    • finish with a little more cheese.  this is key – there must be cheese on the top and bottom – that’s the glue that holds everything together.
    • Fold it in half and put in the pan.
    • VARIATION: you can also use two tortillas like i show above.  as your butter melts, swirl one tortilla around in the butter and pull it out and place butter side up on a plate.  put another tortilla down and fill cheese- chicken-onion-cheese and place the other tortilla butter side up on top.
    • let the tortilla cook for quite a while.  i wait until i smell slight burning… but you don’t have to do that.  then flip!  take a big spatula and flip quickly using your hand as a guide.

    meal #3 breakfast

    use that small amount of chicken breast you cut up to throw in scrambled eggs.  chicken and scrambled eggs?  yes, you heard me correctly.  lots of protein in the morning is super good for you and keeps you less hungry throughout the day, says this.

    let me know if you try the quesadillas!  i adapted my technique from the one and only pioneer woman here.  she rocks.  i’m making shrimp ones later today!

    5 ways to get ready for guests

    29 Jul

    are you a planner?  if not, hosting out-of-town guests would be daunting.  even though they may be low maintenance, it never changes how special i want the time to be.

    so i thought i’d write out how i plan since i’ve had several friends ask me for advice.

    first, start a pinterest board for your event.  even if it is just a dinner.  make it private if you don’t want people to see.  or not.  pinterest is hands down one of the best places to get recipes, decoration ideas and thoughts on entertaining – everything!

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    second, having a game plan is key.  it’s funny how this spilled into my work as well.  i’ve seemed to become a stickler on timing and i’m like that at home too.  it’s not enough to have a couple recipes printed out and the ingredients.  ROF and i found that out the hard way when we made boeuf bourguignon with my sister.  we found out that the mushrooms had to marinate for like 8 hours and the beef had to cook for 4.  we ate at 2am in the morning (and after 3+ bottles of wine) – so timing is everything.

    be crazy about it.  i keep my game plan in an app called evernote.  that way i can replicate it.

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    I have a notebook called visitors itineraries, then inside it is the event like “christmas 2017” and then inside that i have folders for grocery list, menu/recipes and game plan.  the plan tells me exactly when to do something and that way i can plan ahead and make sure food gets hot to the table on time.  i am very literal – kind of like an idiot talking to herself…-

    “take meat out of fridge at 3pm”

    “put meat in marinade at 3:30pm, preheat oven 400”

    “meat in oven at 4pm”

    “cook at …..”  you get the picture.

    third, do as much as humanly possible in advance.  make the salad dressing, trim the veggies, bake the cake – anything at all that can be done in advance – do it.  this is something my mentor (from a distance), the barefoot contessa, has said many times.  make it in advance.  in fact, her new cookbook is all about doing just that.  unless the cooking can be a fun group activity and you’ve got some casual, hang-around-the-house-time, limit what you’re doing while your guests are there.  of course, this depends on the guests you’re having.  if it’s family or close friends – have them join in and help – no biggie.  if it’s more formal, don’t be chopping the veggies while your guests feel helpless staring at you!

    51hcOrWFjQL._SX373_BO1,204,203,200_fourth, set up a bar away from the kitchen.  it’s where everyone congregates and if you’re trying to get food prepared, it can be challenging to work around everyone.  don’t feel as if you have to have a fancy bar.  anything can become a bar.    the more quirky, the more fun it is.

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    get a big basket and fill it with basic booze, couple bottles of wine, already open, glasses an ice bucket and some lemon/lime wedges – there you go!

    fifth –just work your plan.  when i have guests for a couple of days, just extend the itinerary and the plan.  i typically have a lot of fun with our guests…ha… and can forget that i’m supposed to make the breakfast casserole for tomorrow!

    hope this helps!  please add any tips you have.

    best flank steak recipe

    27 Jul

    just in time for the weekend and back by popular demand…

    need a “go to” steak recipe?  this is it.

    i call

    it the “girlfriend steak dinner” because it’s what ROF served his girlfriends if they made it to date #4.  i know this because one saturday while we were visiting in his kitchen (let’s call this date #5), his friend came over and asked if ROF had fixed me “the famous flank steak yet.”

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    huh?

    ROF’s face turned a shade of red i hadn’t seen before as he tried to shrug the comment off and grab his friend in a head lock to shut him up.

    the previous weekend ROF had indeed fixed me this famous flank steak recipe along with his butter noodles and some nice red wine.  evidently this is what lover boy did to pull out all the stops for his lady friends!  i’m glad that those lady friends now are my mom, sister and his wife!

    well, here it is.  transcribed from a handmade and passed down cookbook.  you can’t go wrong.

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    ROF’s GIRLFRIEND FLANK STEAK

    2 tsp unseasoned meat tenderizer

    1 tbsp sugar

    2 tbsp dry sherry

    2 tbsp soy sauce

    1 tsp salt

    1 tsp accent seasoning (see photo below, in case you don’t know what i’m talking about)

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    honey (to drizzle on steak)

    • pierce surface of flank steak at 1 inch intervals with sharp fork.
    • combine ingredients except honey
    • put steak in pan flat and drizzle with honey on both sides
    • put steak in large baggie and pour ingredients over steak and let stand at least 1 hour at room temperature
    • grill meat over high heat for about 5-7 minutes on each side (use a timer, flank steak is bad when well done!)
    • slice with sharp knife into thin slices carving at an angle against the grain

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    IMG_5122518b32b3aeeca5f0762bea7edb0fee8ffor more steak ideas from ROF, click here!

    spicy pickle gin martini recipe

    21 Jul

    you know you’re already thinking about happy hour.  whether it’s you and your sig other or maybe you’re looking for something swank to kick off a dinner party this weekend – this is your drink!

    recipe:

    1-2 oz dry gin

    splash of dry vermouth

    splash of juice from jar of  spicy pickles

    get a martini glass and fill it with glass and ice, set aside.  in a martini shaker, pour in gin, then dry vermouth, then spicy pickle juice.  give it a good shake.  empty glass of ice and water and pour your drink.  garnish with spicy pickle.   enjoy!  for more ROF cocktail videos, click here

     

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    RUM AND PUNCH

    14 Jul

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    the only grilled shrimp recipe you’ll need

    29 Jun

    run, don’t walk to the store, buy what you need to make this today.  i found this awesome recipe here .

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    HONEY GARLIC GRILLED SHRIMP

    1 bottle (8 oz) Italian salad dressing (get the good stuff) 

    1 cup honey

    1/2 tsp minced garlic

    2 lbs uncooked medium shrimp peeled and deveined (we didn’t use frozen) 

    that’s all the ingredients folks!

    combine the salad dressing, honey and garlic and set aside 1/2 cup for later.  pour the marinade into a large baggie and dump the shrimp in.  put the baggie in a casserole dish so you don’t dribble in the fridge.

    **see my note below on how long i marinated the shrimp in the fridge.  directions say for 30 minutes, but i did overnight + a day.  no biggie here.  reserve the 1/2 cup marinade reserve and put that in fridge too.

    drain and discard the marinade.  throw the shrimp on the barbie and throw the reserved marinade on top of it.  this is what ROF did although the recipe called for much more delicate maneuvers.  worked for us.  grill on each side only about 1 – 1.5 minutes per side.  when they start to turn white but get that nice honey char on the outside – they’re done.

    we had couscous and grilled corn on the cob on the side.  plenty left over for lunches the next day.  i also picture this to be a fantastic appetizer.

    easy, flavorful + scrumptious grilled shrimp!  my new shrimp go-to recipe.  i can’t believe i just used the word go-to.  i hate that phrase. #saveit #loveit

    if you try this, snap some pictures so i can fancy this blog up with some step by step pics.

    party of one

    27 Jun

    if you have to eat alone, do it with confidence and have fun.

    here are 4 things you can do other than stick your face into your mobile phone and text people stupid things:

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    1. sit at the bar.  don’t be afraid, ladies.  men have this down but they don’t own it!  move in and make the space yours.  great way to meet new friends and at least exchange words with the bartender.  at the bar, you can check out other loners and try to guess their story.

    Screen Shot 2015-08-14 at 1.19.10 PM2. write.  i actually did this a lot in my single years in my 20’s and 30’s.  grab some paper and writing utensil and write about what you see, where you are (like literally…where you are) what you’re feeling and what is going on in your life.  these are great to put away in a box and open it up years from now.  i have a ton of stuff i wrote as far back as 25 years ago and i can read it and totally remember what i was up to… because i wrote it all down!  also, it makes you look important.  the guy next to you at the bar is thinking ” she must be an author!”

    3. strike up a conversation.  if this sounds terrifying to you – all the more reason to do it.  everyone is afraid of person-to-person conversation now.  everyone texts!  what will you say?  here are some great openers:

    • been on any good vacations lately?
    • fred, it’s great to see you!  oh!  i’m sorry, you’re not fred!  (the embarrassment wears off quickly and you’re left chatting it up)

    4. be observant.  just look around and think of it as an adventure.  you can only do this if you’re uber confident because everyone else will rely on their trusty cell phone and google stupid song lyrics or worse, the menu at the restaurant they’re sitting at! <gulp>  pull your shoulders back,  sit up straight, smile.  order a drink and enjoy it!  check the room out, chat it up with the wait staff.  boy this sounds stupid doesn’t it?  i take this all for granted for as much as i (used) to travel.  i realize their might be some women out there that don’t have to eat by themselves.  and that is fine but if you get the chance DO IT.  it may be an adventure.

    25 things to do with blueberries

    24 Jun

    if you’re like me, you walk into whole foods or your local grocery store of choice and walk right into the fresh produce section.  there sits beautiful mounds of blueberries all nicely packaged and wrapped with care.  i tend to daydream as step closer to them – thinking of all the hard work that went into getting those blueberries to us.  you know… how they have to  be picked, sorted, packaged, shipped and then they have just a few days (if that) of shelf life.  yes, i know, that goes for all produce.

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    but i never end up grabbing a pint because i  just can never finish a whole one and they end up going bad.  and then i feel guilty.  so i walk past the blueberries and think …next time…

    NOT ANY MORE!

    i’ve specially curated a batch of 25+ blueberry recipes for you from some of my favorite bloggers and pinners.  don’t miss the one here – a hysterical v-logger that i love!  those little blue nuggets of goodness will never get wasted now!  i’ve only collected recipes that look good to me and that i would make.  or i liked the name of the recipe like cloufouti.

    here are 5 blueberry recipes and for the rest, go to my dedicated pinterest page here.

    be sure to click on the “by” for the recipe.

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    baked blueberry oatmeal

    from cupofjo blog

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    blueberry chopped chicken salad

    from us highbrush blueberry council

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    blueberry sauce crepes with honey whipped cream

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    summer corn + blueberry salad

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    blueberry lemon cake

    by food52.com

    Screen Shot 2015-07-13 at 1.18.39 PMand if you’re looking for 25 things to do with peaches…. click here!  or check out this awesome recipe for a tried and true delicious peach cobbler recipe.

    DRINK RECIPE: THE TIDAL WAVE

    17 Jun

    back again by popular demand is our weekly drink recipe by ROF.  if you are headed out to a sporting event, sitting by the pool, hanging out on the lake, this one is for you.  recipe is below the video.  enjoy!

     

    the tidal wave: makes 2

    1 wheat beer

    2 shots of vodka

    3 oz limeade or lemonade

    squeeze of lemon

    mix all together and pour in two glasses over ice.  garnish with lemon.

    NATIONAL GIN DAY!

    10 Jun

    let’s celebrate with a GIN GIN drink recipe from COCKTAILS WITH ROF!

     

    1oz dry gin like Bombay

    1oz gin liqueur

    Juice of 1/2 lime

    2 slices of peeled cucumber

    3-4 fresh mint leaves

    Splash of ginger ale

    put all but ginger ale in a tall glass and muddle it (smoosh it with a muddler), pour over ice, top with a big splash of ginger ale and garnish with a slice of cucumber or lime.

    Enjoy!

    WIN-WIN NO-FAIL ROASTED ASPARAGUS

    19 Apr

    raise your hand if you love asparagus!  

    if you didn’t raise your hand, it’s probably because you don’t cook it the right way.  no offense.

    my friend, terry brown of roswell georgia, showed me the easiest, most fool-proof delish way to roast asparagus (or any veg!).

     

    500 degree oven

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    arrange your asparagus on sheet pan, sprinkle with kosher salt

    5 minutes.  done.

    drink it: blood orange martini

    29 Oct

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    hey!

    happy saturday night.

    watching the cubs game (sniff), drinkin’ this spooky blood orange martinis with my girls – amy & ruby.

    dropping a huge steak on the grill.

    life is good.

    i hope this finds you well.

    happy halloween + go cubbies!

    MAKE IT:

    • 1 shot vodka
    • ½ shot limoncello
    • ½ shot ginger liqueur (expensive, but you’re reuse making this)
    • 1 – 1½ shots fresh squeezed blood orange juice (found them at Central Market)
    • ¼ shot simple syrup (make it here or buy it!)
    1. Fill cocktail shaker with ice. Add ingredients and shake well. Make sure you make a face while you shake and hold the shaker like i do.  That’s just for fun.  Strain in a martini glass that you’ve filled with ice and water to chill and then throw it out before you pour the drink in.
    Original recipe from cocktailsdrinkrecipes.com

    cook it: yogurt parfait with mint and pistachio 

    25 Aug

    if you’re like me, you eat the same breakfast every morning.  except those days you get the bacon, egg and cheese mcgriddle from mcdonalds…just kidding…of course i don’t eat that crap!

    this week’s episode of COOK IT comes with a tasty twist of routine.  it’s the best combo ever.  watch my lovely sister (in law) and one of my bestest friends prepare this scrumptious delight.

    making martinis

    20 Aug

    and you thought you knew how to make a martini…🍸

    throw around words like “dirty”, and “up” with confidence.

    by popular demand, here’s ROF’s martini making magic for your drinking pleasure!

    Cook it: gazpacho 

    27 Jul


    get it:

    4 vine ripe tomatoes, skin removed and chopped

    1/2 cucumber, diced

    1/2 green pepper, diced

    1/4c red wine vinegar

    1/4c olive oil

    1 tbsp black pepper

    1 tbsp garlic powder (we love bolners fiesta brand)

    2 c zing zang bloody mary mix

    6-46 dashes of tabasco

    make it:

    prep all your ingredients. Put them all in a bowl.  add more of what you like and less of what you don’t. mix well.

    cover and put in fridge for at least a couple hours – these folks need to spend time getting to know each other in the bowl.

    when ready to serve, you can serve as-is or puree half of it in blender and pour it back in the bowl. Gives it a more soup-like texture but with some chunks.  serve in a bowl with dollop of sour cream, some croutons and chopped scallions.

    75 things to do with peaches

    25 Jul

    i have written over 350 blog posts in the past 5 years and the blog post i did on 25 things to do with peaches is still my biggest hit.  i think it comes up organically in searches.  so of course, i’m no dummy, i’ve upped my game.

    this is a post on 75 things you can do with peaches.  ha.  this is going to sky rocket.

    it is summer after all, and really nothing beats a perfectly ripe, juicy peach.  except maybe crisp michigan roadside corn.  yes, that’s a type of corn.

     

    peaches

    i’ve curated 75 things you can drink, eat and make with peaches.  you can grill them, mix them with savory items like pork chops or wrap bacon around them. you can make smoothies, salsa and jam.  you can drink them up in lemonades, tea, slushes or make a peach collins.  pair peaches with bourbon, bacon, vanilla, crab and ham.  it’s really quite versatile.  you can even make it into a sugar scrub and smear it on your face.

    i’d rather each peaches though.  remember this recipe?

    you can write about peaches, like this:

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    or change your name to “peaches”

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    or you can learn about peaches.  here are some cool facts you’ll feel smarter for knowing:

    • the top four peach-producing states are california, south carolina, georgia and new jersey
    • this fruit is a member of the Rosaceae family and is a close relative of almonds
    • a large peach has fewer than 70 calories and contains 3 grams of fiber. It’s also a good source of vitamins a and c
    • it is a good stress-reliever, helps to reduce anxiety – it is often referred to as the ‘Fruit of Calmness’ in hungary
    • in the world, china is the biggest producer of peaches and italy is the second

    who knew?  now you do.  so go make some of these delicious peach recipes right now – before peach season runs out!

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    cook it: chicken florentine artichoke bake

    21 Jul

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    thank god the weekend is almost here.  i’m ready for it.  while i haven’t been traveling too much this month, i find it hard to work from home.  anyone else think that as well?  i seems i need people, action and inspiration.  that’s why it was so much fun to have my sister-in-law hang out for a while this summer.  we had a lot of fun together.  we cooked up a storm, both at home and while taking a cooking class at sur la table.  

    this week’s episode of COOK IT is a casserole and it’s perfect to make on sunday.  just saying that word, casserole,  is comforting.  one dish of love wrapped up with all the things i love.  pasta, artichokes, spinach, sun-dried tomatoes, paprika.

    just kidding, who loves paprika?

    Cook

    chicken florentine artichoke bake

    6 servings

    get it:

    bow tie pasta – 8 ozs

    onion – 1 small, chopped

    eggs – 2

    butter – 2t

    milk – 1 1/4c

    crushed red pepper – shake

    dried italian seasonings – shake

    chicken  -2 c cooked + chopped

    monterey jack cheese – 2 c, shredded

    artichoke hears – 14 oz can

    spinach – 10 oz , fresh

    oil packed sun dried tomatoes – 1/2 c drained and chopped

    panko  bread crumbs – 1/2 c

    paprika – 1/2 tsp

    parm cheese – 1/4 c

    do it:

    preheat oven to 350.  cook pasta according to directions, drain.  in medium skillet cook onion in 1 t of butter over medium heat about 5 minutes, stir every so often.  remove from hear, set aside.

    in a bowl, whisk together eggs, milk, seasoning, salt, pepper and crushed red pepper.  stir in chicken, cheese, artichokes, spinach, tomatoes, half of the parm cheese, pasta and onion.  get in there with your hands and stir it up – a spoon can’t do it justice! transfer to a 13 x 9 baking dish.

    fix a glass of wine.

    bake, covered for 20 minutes.  in a small bowl combine remaining parm cheese, bread crumbs, paprika and 1t butter melted.  sprinkle mixture over pasta.  bake that puppy for 10 minutes more until golden!

    eat it!

    here is susan showing how to make it!

    adapted from better homes and garden

    wine to buy for casual get-togethers

    28 Dec

    ever want to grab some wine for a casual get-together, but aren’t sure what you should buy?  do you grab a bottle of expensive wine thinking that the more you pay, it must be good?  then you wonder if that will be enough and you grab another bottle and before you know it, you’re spending double what you planned?

    don’t you hate that?

    a colleague asked ROF for his recommendation on what wine he should buy over the holidays for some out-of-town guests.  i thought it was pretty solid advice, especially if you frequent costco as much as we do.

    plus i thought it was kind of funny.

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    Hey-

    Sorry this has taken me several weeks. Just did a big shop at Costco on Saturday, so this is still top of mind.

    White – Huge fan of the Kim Crawford Sauvignon Blanc – it’s over in the cheap section in the cardboard boxes – not the wood crates. It’s $10.99 or $11.99 a bottle. Great wine – we drink a lot of this @ mi casa.

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    Other White – Le Crema Chardonnay – Good stuff at around $12 a bottle. This is the house white @ The Mansion on Turtle Creek (no joke).

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    Red – My favorite red that Costco sells is Coppola (Francis Ford Coppola – how bad ass is that?) Cabernet Sauvignon or Merlot. It’s great wine and both are a great bargain at Costco for between $11-$15 a bottle. And anyone that bad mouths Merlot is a dumb-shit and doesn’t know wine, they only remember the movie Sideways which sent Merlot sales sliding for years.

    Another red to try – Dynamite – either the Cab or Merlot – a little cheaper than Coppola but real good. It also has a cool label.

    Dynamite Vineyards 2012 Merlot 750ml

    Hope this helps.

    Happy Holidays and bottoms up!

    ROF

    101 ways to get your house ready for guests – friends weigh in!

    15 Nov

    i love having house guests.  because it is just ROF and me (and ruby!) having our house abuzz with family and friends really gives me the feeling of home.  i love making our company comfortable whether it’s a home cooked meal, special conveniences or little surprises.

    so i reached out to my friends to find out what they do to make the visit special.  i love these ideas!

    have some of the guest’s favorite things on-hand; e.g., snack, coffee, liquor/beer. Female: fresh flowers, magazines, candle, comfy bedding, beautiful glass for bottled water, something silver in room Male: good breakfast food, James Patterson-type books, late night snacks, bottled water – marinell roe

    i had my sister and her boyfriends initials monogrammed on hand towels. – megen decker

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    get a collapsible suitcase holder at bed bath and beyond to get their suitcase to a place they can easily use it. put a small surprise on the bed. if kids are visiting get a little something about the city or candy treat.  if they are coming to see your city print an agenda like u and britt did when we came to chicago.aunt sally nilsen

    for me, the thing that makes having house guests easy is organization in advance.  whether it is room prep, meals or activities, if you plan ahead, make an itinerary, buy and prep in advance, you can enjoy your guests and feel less stressed.  – susan prendeville

    i like to put a goodie bath basket on their bed or in the bathroom. something luxurious, soap/body wash, loofa, plush washcloth and candle maybe to help them feel at home and little gifts they can take home with them.- katie ballard

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    since the guest room also doubles as storage when there are no guests, i typically organize the guest room closet and find extra non-wire hangers to put in there.  – meredith conte

    i frame my wireless network and wifi password and put it on the bedside table.  Like what they would see in a boutique hotel.

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    i always buy fruit, juice, banana bread or croissants and set up coffee and tea so they have a little continental breakfast waiting for them in the kitchen. people wake up at different times so even if I go back to bed, it’s there waiting for them and they don’t have to feel weird searching through the pantry.  I like doing this even if we have brunch plans because like I said…sometimes people wake up really early and i’m always hungry as soon as I wake up.

    i always buy chocolate and set it out in candy dishes.  People like to munch and snack and it’s nice being able to grab a few pretzel M&M’s on your way to bed!

    i let them sleep with riley, if they are really good friends… he’s a snuggle bug. – jackie grubb

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    i love to cook for guests and a few special items I will pull out like chicken enchiladas or a lasagna that’s made with pepperoni (yum!) we also love to make a brunch for the first morning complete with mimosas. my go-to brunch casserole is pioneer woman’s sleepin’ in breakfast casserole.

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    when we go out, we try to look for unique spots that the guests might not have at home. i love to try new restaurants and want to share that experience with others. – jennifer anderson

    i love to leave a small vase of fresh flowers, nothing fancy (I can usually run outside and find something pretty in bloom) by the bedside.  ordering out from a local pizza place that first night makes things casual and easy and gives people time to relax. – lindy stagnaro

    have a box of matches or a nice room spray in the bathroom and other accoutrements like nice simple soap in the shower and q-tips on the counter. set up a power outlet by the bed for phones and ipads to charge – sarah beth prendeville

    i also asked my friends what games they like to play with guests and i heard about these several times:

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    dani crowder’s friends and guests have a blast playing this game and we have had great success learning from jamie hare’s family playing this game

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    but the most creative, interesting and fun suggestion came from christine warren.  her husband likes to whip up molecular gastronomy creations (invitation, please!) and she suggested purchasing this fun thing to do with guests!

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    i have also gone to the local unique chocolatier and bought a sample box of chocolate and had guests guess what is in the chocolate (whiskey, bacon etc…)

    lastly, here are some of my tips:

    • give people “jobs” to do.  everyone asks what they can do to help and typically they really do want to help – so delegate roles such as setting the table, writing out place cards, helping keep people’s drinks filled and clearing the table make people feel helpful and play a part
    • have the coffee pot ready to go – just press a button and hot coffee is on the way so your guests don’t have to wait if they wake up early
    •  plan for some down time.  time for people to do their own thing – take a walk (have an extra house key made), read or just hang out and not feel like they have to be “on” the whole time
    • plunger in the bathroom.  no one wants to ask for one and if you have a finicky toilet like we do – just keep one under the sink
    • give guests permission to help themselves to snacks at any time.  drinks in the garage fridge and chips and nuts in the pantry  – help yourself!  i love trader joes salt and pepper pistachios

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    • in the winter, keep comfy socks in guest room drawer and extra blankets by the bed.  sleep in your guest room so you can experience what they will

    thank you to all my fun friends who contributed to this!  i can’t wait to have a house full of family this thanksgiving and they are sure to be the recipients of your great ideas.

    5 lovely links (you’ll love!): pumpkin

    23 Sep

    Flashback to posts long ago…pumpkin, it’s more than just a latte!