Be Good to Yourself

17 Oct

I’ve decided to write about something I don’t know much about nor do I adhere to whatsoever.

For example, it is 2am and I’m writing this. I should be getting my beauty sleep but in spite of my (very comfy) new flannel sheets, earplugs, lavender oil diffuser and going to bed at 9pm…I’m up.

You know what I’m into? Changing your thinking. And what I want to do is change my thinking about being good to myself.

It’s about to get real, folks. Yep, I’m getting vulnerable. Don’t judge.

I’ve gone through life with the goal of feeling good as a priority. And not the kind of feeling good you may be thinking. More like if it feels good, do it. And I justified this with “I deserve it.” Now, this isn’t necessarily bad or wrong unless taken to excess.

I might take it to excess.

There is a big difference between being good to yourself and doing things that feel good.

For example, being good to yourself means having self-discipline and saying no to things that may feel good.

Feeling good is temporary. It’s drinks at a bar, it’s saying yes to dessert or buying that sweater. None of which are bad things if you are living with the goal of being good to yourself.

However, it isn’t good if you are living with the goal of just feeling good. Then it can easily shift into over-indulgence with too many drinks or over-eating or over-spending. It’s thinking if it feels good, then I’ll do it all the time. Without built-in stops in place- either from how you were raised or how disciplined you are, it can go bad.


The best part of my journey is realizing this. I’m aware. And that’s the first step to a more fulfilled life. So now what?

For me, it goes back to changing thinking. Not easy because, well, <sigh>, I’m old! That’s not so easy. But here’s the game plan.

1. Feeling good needs to be about being good to myself. That is going for health and longevity. I’m going to walk every day. Follow my mug on Instagram (@afulford) as I will provide proof. All encouragements welcome. #appreciatorgood

Ok. I’m stopping there. Little steps done daily make big results. This is a TO BE CONTINUED post that I will add to as I go.

4 Responses to “Be Good to Yourself”

  1. Anonymous October 17, 2018 at 9:38 am #

    God is growing you in diligence and intentionality
    I love this 💜

    • Amy Fulford October 17, 2018 at 10:34 am #

      Thank you!

  2. Lori Knutson October 17, 2018 at 10:24 am #

    Love you Amy! Great post today- I definitely needed to hear this. 🙂

    • Amy Fulford October 17, 2018 at 10:34 am #

      Thanks Lori!! Miss you- come north!

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